Bernard Cordelia Yu

Names are Hard

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But I think I’m going to try this for a while. I think I like it.

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I’m keeping my original boy name and I’m adding a woman’s name. The two together fit how I feel inside. I will try to remember to answer to both, together or separate. From now on, feel free to use neutral or feminine pronouns for me. Do not use masculine ones.

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I think I figured out my gender:

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Internally: her.

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Politically: they.

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Biologically: fuck you. —me, on secret Twitter

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On one hand, “Cordelia Bernard” flows better. But clash between the “d” and “C” in “Bernard Cordelia” forces people to slow down and realize that yes, this is a multi-gender name. My name, life, and soul as public service and activism.

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I hope Cordelia Naismith Vorkosigan approves.